
Not only is Sara Ryan a good writer, she also has amazing taste in music đ We seem to fear chaos but we were the ones to define the concept, both of chaos and fear.

I understand that the whole labeling thing might make âworking the fieldâ easier, but does it really? Some say that chaos is the opposite of labels, but who defined chaos in the first place? That is the question.

Why do we have to be lesbians? Or straight? Or bisexual? Why canât we just be ourselves? You know, human beings in love with other human beings. I also quite enjoyed following the narratorâs voice, Nicolaâs, as she went on this self-discovery journey.ÄȘn important detail that I quite enjoyed was Nicâs almost constant debate with Katrina about/over labels. Interesting, isnât it? AnywayâŠÄźverything happened rather quickly, didnât it? I think so, but still, it did have quite a lovely rhythm to it. Words arenât natural, they donât have an inner meaning. This reality we acknowledge is based on our language, something that isnât natural. We could say that archeology and history, for example, try to shed some light on this matter, but at the end of the day they are interpretations. It is such a big mystery though, isnât it? How the world has come to be what it is.

I was always a big fan of questioning every single thing, but I do believe this condition has gotten a lot worse ever since I finished writing my thesis on gender. We want to know why theyâre telling us to do it!'â ââItâs like there are all these people who want to be told what to do, and then there are people who want to tell them what to doâŠâ I say, and Battle continues, â- and then there are people like us.
